Everyone has flaws that you have to learn to accept. Why should you make other suffer because you do something that they don’t like? It could be because that’s just how you are, or they are the only ones that don’t like that.
It’s unfair for anyone to think that your flaws make you or that they don’t have any flaws. I have flaws. Everyone does. It’s just how things work. I have a very specific humor, you have to understand me to understand my jokes. That’s just how people work.
Accept your flaws and then you can become a better self. Isn’t that what everyone wants?